Sometimes we feel anxiety when we read. This feeling usually shows up when we don’t understand what we’re reading or aren’t keeping up with an arbitrary goal—like reading 100 books a year because some YouTuber said it was a good idea.
Let me be clear: reading should never cause you anxiety.
Consider the difference between reading articles online versus reading a great book. After an internet search, I’ve never felt mentally bolstered, revived, or replenished. I may have found the information I was looking for, but when I walk away from the computer, I feel “a little less.”
When I finish a reading session with a physical book, I usually feel “a little more.” I say “usually” because sometimes I do feel anxiety with a book. When that happens, I try to figure out why. Am I reading a book that’s too complicated? Or am I distracted and need to start again and slow down? It’s usually the latter, and when I slow down, the anxiety goes away.
Or, am I trying to hit a specific reading goal that has become more important than the quality of my reading? Am I so focused on hitting the goal that the book no longer matters? When that happens, I need to reevaluate my goals.
Final message: you should never feel anxiety as a reader. If you do, acknowledge it and figure out why that feeling is there. Something is misaligned with your motivations. Reading is a pleasure, not a to-do list item. The moment it becomes a box to check off, the rich and beautiful flavor has gone stale.
Until tomorrow, read slowly – take notes – apply the ideas.
-Eddy
Great post…great website….great podcast!
You’re absolutely right – reading should not be a checkbox on a to-do list. I worry that our world of instant gratification and “show me the info in a video” mindset severely damages our ability to read and concentrate for a sustained time. The best thing we can do is encourage kids and adults alike to pick up a book or a print magazine, find or buy a comfy chair with plenty of light, and….read!
You’re right. The “Show me the info in a video” mindset has given us the excuse to stop thinking. We’re becoming less intelligent at the expense of convenience.